laugh and love: tips for an unforgettable engagement/ couples photoshoot experience!

So, You’ve Got an Engagement Shoot Coming Up? Don’t Panic – I Got You!

Okay, breathe in, breathe out. You’ve got your engagement or couples photoshoot on the horizon, and suddenly you’re realizing… Wait, what do I do with my face? Do I smile? Do I smolder? Do I channel my inner supermodel? 🧐

Trust me, I’ve been there. I still remember my own engagement shoot like it was just yesterday (even though it was 8 years ago — who’s counting?). Nerves were high, my soon-to-be hubby and I felt awkward, and let’s be real, neither of us knew how to pose for a camera that wasn’t on selfie mode. I’m talking, “Where do I put my hands?!” level awkwardness. But guess what? We crushed it. And you will, too. Why? Because this isn’t just any photoshoot — this is a super fun date where you just happen to have a friendly paparazzi (hey, that’s me!) following you around. NBD.

First things first: LET’S GET WEIRD.

No, really. Forget trying to look perfect. Some of the BEST shots come from being totally silly with your boo. Whether you’re bursting into laughter or pulling goofy faces — those moments will give you candid gold. You might even catch yourselves thinking, “Are we basically cover models now?” Spoiler: Yes, yes you are. 😎

Pro Tip: Your awkward is ADORABLE.

And you don’t have to pretend otherwise. In fact, let’s make it work for you. The more you embrace your natural chemistry, the more your love shines through the lens. Remember, it’s about capturing the real you — not some Pinterest-perfect version of a couple who spends all day frolicking through flower fields (unless that is your vibe, in which case, let’s frolic!).

But Wait, There’s More!

Here’s your ultimate game plan: pretend the camera isn’t even there! Go ahead and do your date thing. Hold hands, bust out some random dance moves, share those secret inside jokes, gaze into each other’s eyes like you’re straight out of a cheesy rom-com. I promise, those are the moments that’ll make you look at your photos later and go, “Wow, we look like we belong in a glossy magazine!”

To sum it up: Be You, Have Fun, and Laugh ‘Til It Hurts.

Laugh, get close, maybe even tickle each other (if you dare!). You’ll be amazed at how incredibly those candid moments translate into unforgettable photos.

That’s it for today, my fellow lovebirds! You can check out my other blog posts here for 10 UNIQUE DATE IDEAS FOR YOUR ENGAGEMENT SHOOT IN THE TEXAS HILL COUNTRY or this one on elopement adventure topic.

Until next time, keep being awesome, and remember: Your love story is amazing, and I can’t wait to capture every bit of it — weirdness and all.

-Becks